September 16, 2009
640 words
Queer sights in the expat home.
Of all the civilized communities known to man, expatriates take the prize for being the most eccentric of the lot. Having flown from their nests in search of greener pastures, here is a community that will surprise you with its unique style of dealing with things. Expats for the most, constantly hover over the threshold, not knowing whether to cross over and submerge themselves into the local culture, or to stay within and hang tight to the remnants of their own fast eroding culture.
“I’m all about reusing”, says Mrs Nayantara John, a housewife “Growing up, we dint have the luxuries we see today, Wastage of any kind makes me unhappy, so I reuse! Good for the environment. Good for my wallet” she laughs. Her house is filled with containers of every size and shape, she uses peanut butter jars for spices, milk bottles to store cold water, old clothes to dust her house, and ice cream containers for everything from curry to her impressive collection of colorful thread. “While being ever-receptive of other cultures, should be proud of our heritage, our rich and colorful history. We should be able to carry it with pride, wherever we go, and whichever part of the world we settle in”. she says, smiling through the delusional cultural pride that radiates from her pickle filled jam jars and her other knick knacks.
Megha Kumar, hailing from Kerala, is highly aware of her transience as an expat. “My family is all about preserving everything we own, everything from furniture to electronics are covered for the most of the day.” This might have its roots in miserliness, Although no expat worth his while will admit to it. They refuse to put things to use unless they absolutely have to. Adjustment is the magic word. “We keep everything from empty boxes to old electronic appliance manuals to sachets of ketchup to wet towels from fast food outlets”
Expats tend to prefer interiors that remind them of home. Interiors are all about practicality, although we do try to fill it with as many bric-a-bracs as possible. Most expat houses will have a maniplant growing in the corner, lucky bamboo arrangements and balconies bursting with whatever plants can survive in the Dubai heat. Jaspreet Saluja, a teacher with the Indian High School Dubai says, “I love having plants around, both real and artificial, My house is filled with both plants as well as plastic flower arrangements.
Marie Alves, a banker hailing from Philippines, agrees to missing home. “We try to get to get our homes here to look like homes back in Manila” When asked about the one item one can expect to find in every Filipino house, he says “A rice cooker. I am truly Pinoy. My family has rice for every meal of the day. As is the case in many Filipino homes. We actually have two rice cookers”
Most people believe that expats tend to clutter their houses less than local families, as they move around every few years. While this is true for some, most expats believe in saving up the good stuff to take back to their hometowns. “My parents buy gold, and electronics and other things, to take back home when we finally leave Dubai. They are kept untouched for a number of years. Things are affordable and are of better quality here. But they take up too much unnecessary space around the house. All that clutter! We even save up on plastic bags because they are such a rarity in India”, sighs Reshma Jose, a student.
What all these people have in common is a story of struggle away from home, one where they try to make the best of their surroundings. Man adapts to his surroundings quickly. If Immigration may very well be the most developed form of adaptability ever.